Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still.

Chinese proverbs...eh.  Seems like a ton of my friends are so worried about "life."  It really is tough on a lot of people to deal with career choices, marriage, money, kids, depression, all sorts of things that make you make a choice.  I don't have a lot of good advice there other than the fact that I agree with the old chinese guy.  Don't just sit there and think or sulk or whatever.  Go with Nike and just do it.  Right or wrong at least you are moving.  I know that with the right kind of leadership, friendship, and Lordship you are going to be going up no matter what.  It might be slow or down a winding crazy path but you are going to get there!  Believe in you, I do.